Beyond the Chaos

You don't have to do this alone anymore.

A safe, steady space for mums of adult children struggling with addiction or mental health — where you’ll find hope, tools that actually work, and a circle of women who truly get it.

Join Beyond the Chaos Today

If joining feels like a big step today, that’s okay. You can begin with something smaller — a free guide I created just for mums like you.

What no one told you about helping your child.

5 Shifts That Change Everything
Without Losing Yourself in the Process

You’ve tried everything you were told — tough love, firmer boundaries, stepping back, rescuing — and none of it has worked the way it was promised.

You’ve carried fear, guilt, and sleepless nights, always bracing for the next call, the next crisis.
And yet… you’re still here. Still searching. Still loving.

That persistence? It matters. And it’s exactly why Beyond the Chaos exists.

Hey there!

I'M SANDRA

Read my story ➝

Beyond the Chaos is the space I wish I’d had when I was in the thick of it.

I’m a Recovery & Resilience Coach, and a mum who knows firsthand the fear, exhaustion, and heartbreak of watching a child struggle with addiction.

I created Beyond the Chaos to give other mums what I once needed most: steady support, practical tools, and a compassionate space to gather strength, make sense of what’s happening, and create the conditions where positive change becomes possible — for both you and your child.

Your Next Step Forward

Choose the support that fits you best — from steady community, to one-on-one coaching, to a simple guide to get you started.

Beyond the Chaos Membership

Find steady support, proven tools, and a community of mums who truly get it. Inside, you’ll learn how to create the conditions where positive change becomes possible — for both you and your child.

Learn more ➝

1:1 Coaching with Sandra

Sometimes you need more than a group — you need a guide right beside you. Private coaching gives you tailored support and clear next steps, so you can move forward with confidence and hope.

Bookings are currently full but will be opening again soon.

Free Guide: 5 Shifts That Change Everything

Not ready to join yet? Start here. These five simple but powerful shifts will help you move from fear and reaction to steadiness and influence — without losing yourself in the process.

Get the free guide ➝

"Joining Sandra's Beyond the Chaos had given me skills to assist me to not lose sight of myself as I deal with the chaos of my son's addiction. The group chats have helped me realize I am not alone as others deal with similar issues"

Founding Member

"Sandra gave me some valuable insights into how addiction works and how to understand behaviors. This is tricky to do when you're in the thick of it, but with Sandra's calm and compassionate nature, she made it really easy to understand."