Are You Worried About Your Child's Substance Use?
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Do you lie awake at night, your mind racing with fear and unanswered questions?
Are you spending your days second-guessing yourself, anticipating conflict, or feeling like you have to convince your child to stop using?
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. And more importantly—you don’t have to stay stuck in this place.
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The Proven Path to Supporting Your Child Without Losing Yourself
For so long, we've been told that the only way forward is through tough love, detachment, or endless attempts to fix the problem. But what if there’s another way?
A way that allows you to support your child without losing yourself in the process.
That’s exactly what the Beyond the Chaos Blueprint is designed to help you do.
It’s not about forcing change or waiting for rock bottom. It’s about understanding what actually helps, setting boundaries that support both you and your child, and finding peace—even in the uncertainty.
Doors Opening Soon - Join Waitlist"I spent years feeling helpless, trying everything to fix my child’s substance use. But the more I tried to control it, the worse things got - and the more exhausted I became. Sandra helped me release the guilt, set boundaries that actually worked, and reclaim my emotional wellbeing."
— J.  Mum & Beyond the Chaos Coaching Client
Inside the Beyond the Chaos Blueprint, you’ll learn how to:Â
 🔹 Stop feeling stuck in survival mode and reclaim your emotional well-being.
🔹 Let go of guilt and shame, so you can stop carrying the weight of responsibility alone.
🔹 Understand why your child’s behavior feels so confusing—and how to stop taking it personally.
🔹 Set boundaries that actually support change—without the guilt or fear of abandonment.
🔹 Communicate in a way that builds trust and influence instead of conflict.
🔹 Find peace, even when things feel uncertain.
🔹 Discover what really makes a difference in your child’s recovery (it’s not what you’ve been told).
🔹 Reclaim your own life, without waiting for your child to change first.
This isn’t just about coping—it’s about lasting change.
And you won’t have to do it alone.
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When you join Beyond the Chaos, you’ll have access to:
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 Community – A Safe Place to Feel Understood
Life is just better with the right circle of woman around you. Â
Inside Beyond the Chaos Blueprint, you’ll be surrounded by other mums who truly get it—who understand the ups, downs, and everything in between.
This is your safe space to ask questions, share experiences, & feel supported every step of the way.Â
Coaching – Weekly Live Support & Guidance
Each week, you’ll have access to live group coaching sessions where you can get personalized guidance, ask questions, and learn strategies that actually work.
Whether you show up live or watch the replays, you’ll always have expert support to help you navigate this journey with more confidence and peace. Â
Lessons – Bite-Sized, Actionable ToolsÂ
Inside Beyond the Chaos Blueprint, you’ll get easy-to-follow lessons designed to help you shift your approach—without overwhelm.
From understanding addiction to setting boundaries and improving communication, each lesson is packed with practical, evidence-based tools you can start using right away.
What Makes Beyond the Chaos Different?
🔹More than just support – You’ll follow a clear, step-by-step success path to transformation.
🔹More than just coping strategies – You’ll gain tools to truly shift your approach.
🔹More than just information – You’ll have real-time support and expert guidance.
If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start reclaiming your life, I’d love to welcome you inside.
Join Beyond the Chaos Blueprint Waitlist TodayThe Beyond the Chaos Blueprint Success Path
Stage 1- The Struggle – Fighting for ControlÂ
🔹 What This Looks Like:Â
- "I feel like I have to fix this."Â
- "I’m constantly worried, exhausted, and overwhelmed."Â
- "I don’t understand why my child keeps doing this."Â
🔹 How to Move Forward:Â
- Start by understanding addiction and why control doesn’t work.Â
- Learn how to shift your approach and take care of yourself.Â
Stage 2 - Awakening – Realizing Control Isn’t the AnswerÂ
🔹 What This Looks Like:Â
- "I don’t understand why they won’t stop, but I know I can’t force them."Â
- "I feel lost and guilty, but I’m starting to see this differently."Â
- "I want to help, but I don’t know how."Â
🔹 How to Move Forward:Â
- Learn why guilt & self-blame keep you stuck.Â
- Start using practical tools to shift your response.Â
Stage 3 - Rebuilding – Setting Boundaries & Reclaiming SelfÂ
🔹 What This Looks Like:Â
- "I can’t control their choices, but I can control how I respond."Â
- "I need to set boundaries, but I feel guilty about it."Â
- "I’m starting to realize I need to take care of myself too."Â
🔹 How to Move Forward:Â
- Learn how to set boundaries that actually help.Â
- Start reclaiming your own well-being.Â
Stage 4 - Connection – Influence Through TrustÂ
🔹 What This Looks Like:Â
- "I don’t want to push them away, but I don’t know how to communicate differently."Â
- "I want to be someone they trust and turn to."Â
- "I’m learning to respond instead of react."Â
🔹 How to Move Forward:Â
- Learn how to shift from conflict to connection.Â
- Use communication tools that build trust & influence.Â
Stage 5 - Peace & Acceptance – Finding Freedom Beyond the Chaos
🔹 What This Looks Like:Â
- "I understand that their recovery is their journey."Â
- "I can love them without trying to control them."Â
- "I’m prioritizing my well-being without guilt."Â
🔹 How to Move Forward:Â
- Fully embrace peace, acceptance, and self-care.Â
- Create a vision for your life beyond the chaos.Â
Where are you on this journey?
Wherever you are, Beyond the Chaos Blueprint is here to support you every step of the way.
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Why I Created Beyond the Chaos
Hi I'm Sandra, I'm a Health, Mental Health & Family Recovery Coach, and I'm a mum.
I support other mothers who are where I once was—navigating the heartache and uncertainty of having a child struggling with substance use.
For years, I felt like I was drowning in fear, uncertainty, and exhaustion. I tried everything to help my child, swinging between control and helplessness, desperate for something that would actually work. But nothing did. And it was breaking me.
It wasn’t until I discovered a new way—one grounded in understanding, boundaries, and self-care—that everything changed. I learned that real support isn’t about controlling the outcome, it’s about equipping yourself with the right tools, the right mindset, and the right community.
That’s why I created Beyond the Chaos Blueprint—to give mums the support, tools, and step-by-step guidance I wish I had earlier. Because you don’t have to figure this out alone. And you don’t have to stay stuck in fear or guilt.
Wherever you are on this journey, know this: You are not alone. And there is a path forward
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This is your chance to step into a proven path toward reclaiming your well-being, strengthening your relationship with your child, and finding peace—no matter what’s happening in their journey.
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Founding Member Offer:
🔹 $39 NZD/month (locked in for as long as you stay)
🔹 Access to weekly lessons, group coaching, and a private community
🔹 Be part of a supportive space with others who truly understand
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